Remaining of a child with a caregiver

Not every child grows up with his or her birth parents or with a birth parent. Neglect, domestic violence or a serious illness of a parent can be conditions that severely limit the child's well-being. Under certain circumstances, a child may then be placed with a foster parent or foster family. Often, family foster care also occurs as a result of parents placing their child in the care of relatives, such as grandparents, for an indefinite period of time.

As a foster caregiver, you help to provide for and strengthen the well-being of the child entrusted to your care. If the conditions in the family of origin of your foster child do not improve, or otherwise in agreement with the parents, the child can also stay with you permanently. If the parents do not (or no longer) agree to this, you can apply to the family court for an order for the child to remain with you. The family court orders the child to remain with the caregiver if and as long as the child's well-being would be endangered by being taken away from the caregiver.

If the conditions for issuing a permanent order to remain are met, the court must also consider the child's need for continuous and stable living conditions in its decision as part of the child's best interests.

If there is an urgent need for an immediate court order and a final decision is not yet possible, the court may also decide this as a provisional measure by way of a temporary order.

Note that the rights of the child's parents are of great importance. Therefore, even during the time when the child is not in their care, they have a right to counseling and support, as well as to foster their relationship with their child. The aim is to improve the conditions in the family of origin in such a way that the parents can raise the child themselves again, or at least to promote their relationship with the child and their understanding of the child in such a way that another perspective on life can be developed by mutual agreement which is in the best interests of the child and is designed to last. Insofar as contact is in the best interests of the child, the parents' right and duty to contact their child also applies if the child lives with a foster carer.

The basis of the court's decision is the so-called "principle of the best interests of the child". This means that the decision is not based on the subjective wishes of the parents or caregiver. Rather, it must be ensured that the child is only taken away from the foster family by the parents if this does not harm the child by breaking off the relationship.

Requirements

You have taken in a child and would like to request that the child remain in your family. The following criteria must be met for the requested court decision:

• The child must have been living in your family for a long time. Whether this is the case will be assessed on a case-by-case basis, taking into account the age of the child, among other things,
• the parents want to take the child away from you, and
• taking the child away from the foster family by the parents would endanger the child's well-being.

If you want the child to remain in your family permanently, the following criteria must also be met for such a court decision:

• The parents have not sustainably improved their parenting situation,
• it is very unlikely that there will be any improvement in the parenting situation in the future, and
• the child's permanent stay in your family is necessary for his or her well-being.

Please note: The so-called "best interests of the child principle" is decisive for the assessment of your application. In particular, the age of the child, its relationships and ties at the time of the decision and its previous history are taken into account.

What documents do I need?

• As a rule, no documentation is required.